What if...
Even the most high-achieving, highly self-aware women have been calling this a communication problem for years.
It's deeper than that. It's a trust problem in a communication costume.
Here's the mistake.
You've been waiting for him to change before you let yourself feel safe.
That's completely understandable. But it means you brace instead of rest. You keep the ledger. You stay the only adult in the house growing.